My Dad's last job before he passed away in 1994, was delivering for a small local bakery. He would go in around midnight, load up his truck, and drive to stores and restaurants, with all manner of baked goods.
On occasion, I would go with him to help him load his truck. I wasn't always pleased to do it, because I was a lazy college bum. Now I would give anything to go back to those days..
Today, against my better judgment, I watched the live feed coming from the commencement at the university where I worked for 18 years.
That was my last job, where I became ill, and had to quit on disability in Dec-1999. I was the Photojournalist for the university. A wonderful and very challenging job which required me to cover almost every possible activity and event that took place, both on an off campus. I got to meet and photograph many famous people… Continue
This is the first in what may become a series of memories I have of my family.
I can't say for sure if this is an actual earliest memory of mine or just feels like it, but here it is.
When I was a baby, a very round chubby baby, my Parents hired a photographer to come to our house and take pictures of my brother and me. Well, I was set on the couch, and I was so roly-poly, I would roll over to my left or right and my Dad had to keep setting me upright. If… Continue
I hope to write some blogs about my Mom and Dad as a tribute to them, and to share a little of my love for them. I don't know if I'm ready to do this yet..my heart still hurts.
My Mom used to tell me stories about her amazing life and I would suggest that she write them down. She told me she started to..I hope I can find her writings. i had also planned to video her talking about her life, but…Continue
It hurts all the time. The moments of waking up in the morning, (or at 4am), may be the worst. That's when the realization that my Mom isn't here hits like a wall. I want to talk to her again. I do talk to her, and to my Dad..but...
I hired help 24/7 for the first two weeks. Since I am disabled, I was afraid to be alone. I've had to cut back on the hours because the cost is prohibitive. I may have to take a reverse mortgage on my condo to pay for continuing help. I… Continue
My Mom had a stroke last week. She has weakness on her right side and difficulty speaking, She is in a nursing home now for rehab. I have never felt so scared and alone. I am bedridden and cannot even visit her.
Please say a prayer or positive thought for my Mom Olga's recovery.
I have a neurological disabilty of spinal nerves called Transverse Myelitis. It is related to MS, and can become MS in some cases.
I now need a walker or a wheelchair for mobility, and walkers are becoming less useful. I have one power wheelchair, (I can't use a manual chair because of the deficits in my arms and hands). However, this wheelchair is too large to get through some of the small hallways and doorways of my condo.
I have been shopping for a second small chair… Continue
Well, I think the powers that be finally gave my Mom and me a break. I hired someone from Companions and Homemakers, and she just finished. She is WONDERFUL! Efficient, friendly, kind, and just a lovely person. She's coming back tomorrow and I hope this isn't too good to be true.
Wednesday my Mom had a doctor's appointment. I had told the people we pay to help us the night before of her appointment and that it would be around 4pm. I said I'd call Wednesday to confirm. I called around 2:30pm. They had the cellphone that I pay for them to use, turned off. They never got my message and totally forgot about my Mother. They showed up around 3:30pm to collect their pay and the groceries I buy for them every week. We told them about the appointment and they were unphased. This… Continue
The internet is a wonderful thing. For me it's my window on the world. But, In addition to the wonderful connections I've made, sometimes you get news that hurts deeply.
About a week ago I learned about the passing of a friend of mine, Patricia Hemenway Cook. I had not seen her in many years, but still thought about her often. Patty was young, only 59. We met at my last job. Patty and I became fast friends, always making each other laugh. She was well known in town as a talented… Continue
“It's as much fun to scare as to be scared.”
--Vincent Price
I was fortunate to be at a lecture by Vincent Price given at Yale many years ago.
First the animated film 'Vincent' directed by Tim Burton, narrated by Vincent Price,
was shown:
Afterwards, Mr. Price gave a short talk about his career. At the end of the talk, he invited audience
members to come up and get his autograph. He was swamped, and I swear this to be true:
in… Continue
Soupy Sales was one of my favorite comedians growing up. His humor
appealed to all ages. He was probably most famous for getting pies
in the face and giving 'em:… Continue