but some people don't want you to change. you become a better person and they want to hold you to the person that they did not like before, they don't want you to become more positive, they want you to stay negative.
they want to hate the good...
people that get upset because YOU have changed your life for the better are not the people you need to be hanging around. They are only going to bring you down.
Why subject yourself to something/someone that does not make you feel good about yourself?
that makes no sense.
Its like dominos. negativity is contagious. When I had a bad experience, I found myself sharing it with up to perhaps ten people, yet when I have a positive experience, I seem to not tell as many people compared to the negative.
I am trying to break free from that habit and not speak at all about the negative. I don't want to continue to feed it. Even if I don't wanna have anything to do with it, acknowledging that its still there at times, still adds to the dilemma.
my own personal hell. I created it, now I need to do away with it.
I have also learned to let go... don't focus on what I can't change...
so yeah, we can't change the world by turning a blind eye to the negative in it, but if we are going to war with negative, we must select our battles wisely.
If you take yourself out of the equation, that one domino that continues the cycle of negativity, not only are you bettering yourself, but the world as well.
I guess what I am saying is, if you really wanna change, you will.