Quest for Purpose X ~ Now & Then

Comment by Lori on January 29, 2009 at 12:26pm

I really liked that! knowing what I know now, I would never have gotten married either! But would still want my son. Great Vid.

Comment by hundamit on January 29, 2009 at 1:18pm

all I can say is somehow life just kinda falls in place, do what make YOU happy :)

Comment by SydTheSkeptic on January 29, 2009 at 10:31pm

I see myself doing wonderful things in five years.

oh, wait...I think I said that five years ago.

bummer.

I love this one.
When is there gonna be a new one?

Comment by JustDee on January 29, 2009 at 11:37pm

I don't care so much about what I have...I care more about how I feel.
I do have a 5 year plan... at first I thought it was about how my husband treated me. but I have come to realize it is more about how I treat myself. So my 5 year plan is to take better care of myself and to be in a healthier and happier state of mind and body.

This is a great vid spacemonkey. It is true, I have said to my kids a dozen times, "don't get married". What I really want to say to them is don't get married until you know who YOU are. Don't get married because you feel pressured or you don't think you have any other choice, don't get married out of boredom or because you want to be sure you have someone into your old age,, Get married when you love YOURSELF enough to not NEED anyone else. And as far as kids are concerned, I would say, have 1 or even 2... more then that for most people is to much of a strain financially and emotionally....
In the long run Dan, you have to do what feels right for YOU. In todays day and age, you are really still so young and it is good that you are exploring "your world" now because when you do find someone, if that is what you choose, and you do settle down, if that is what you choose to do, You will be so much happier and probably have a stronger relationship with your spouse and your kids.
Keep them coming...

Comment by spacemonkey1310 on January 30, 2009 at 12:31pm

@ motc - firstly, great vid comment lol. Secondly, I'm beginning to think your way is better.

@ Dee - good advice. Thank you.

@ Syd - See? That happens too quick doesn't it?

@ Hundamit - Yes it does. Good advice also. Thanks.

@ Lori - If only I knew now what I knew then.

Comment by spacemonkey1310 on January 30, 2009 at 12:33pm

@ Syd - oh and soon : )

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