Comments - dirty laundry part 1 - The Ark2024-03-29T13:07:55Zhttp://lovevideoplayhouse.ning.com/profiles/comment/feed?attachedTo=2426069%3ABlogPost%3A113540&xn_auth=noThank you all my friends I am…tag:lovevideoplayhouse.ning.com,2011-08-10:2426069:Comment:1156802011-08-10T06:13:42.041Zphoto2010http://lovevideoplayhouse.ning.com/profile/Kevin
Thank you all my friends I am working on part 2 of the story now. (((hugs)))
Thank you all my friends I am working on part 2 of the story now. (((hugs))) To add... I guess I sound rea…tag:lovevideoplayhouse.ning.com,2011-08-08:2426069:Comment:1156622011-08-08T15:11:22.398ZMariehttp://lovevideoplayhouse.ning.com/profile/Marie
<p>To add... I guess I sound really mean, but I hate seeing vultures taking advantage of nice people like you when they are vulnerable. She uses her relationship and 'family status' an excuse, but it is still theft. She probably thinks no authority will care... I ran into that with one estate. The lawyer we used thought pursing the removal of the 'light over the dinning room table' was not worth it - until I explained that 'the light over the dinning room table' was an antique sterling silver…</p>
<p>To add... I guess I sound really mean, but I hate seeing vultures taking advantage of nice people like you when they are vulnerable. She uses her relationship and 'family status' an excuse, but it is still theft. She probably thinks no authority will care... I ran into that with one estate. The lawyer we used thought pursing the removal of the 'light over the dinning room table' was not worth it - until I explained that 'the light over the dinning room table' was an antique sterling silver chandelier with cranberry glass globes valued at over $30,000. We got it back for the estate.</p>
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<p>All the best in whatever you decide to do. [[[hugs]]]</p> If a stranger stole the jewel…tag:lovevideoplayhouse.ning.com,2011-08-08:2426069:Comment:1155562011-08-08T12:48:26.137ZMariehttp://lovevideoplayhouse.ning.com/profile/Marie
<p>If a stranger stole the jewelry, would you report it? Just because the thief is related - they do not get a pass. She has to prove her claim to a legal authority.</p>
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<p>C has <span style="text-decoration: underline;">broken the law</span> by stealing valuable jewelry from your mother's estate. Tell C to return the jewelry within 'x' days or you will be forced to go to the police and report the theft. Even better, If your mother's estate has a executor/trix, lawyer, or declared…</p>
<p>If a stranger stole the jewelry, would you report it? Just because the thief is related - they do not get a pass. She has to prove her claim to a legal authority.</p>
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<p>C has <span style="text-decoration: underline;">broken the law</span> by stealing valuable jewelry from your mother's estate. Tell C to return the jewelry within 'x' days or you will be forced to go to the police and report the theft. Even better, If your mother's estate has a executor/trix, lawyer, or declared responsible person, have them talk to her and followup with letter if she does not comply. This is not a family matter, or something for small claims court.</p>
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<p>I am not a lawyer, but have been an executor many times. It amazes me the crap people pull after a death. These bullies always back down when faced with the law.</p>
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<p>I am so sorry that you have to deal with this after the death of your mother. My sincerest condolences.</p> Don't be ashamed. I have a c…tag:lovevideoplayhouse.ning.com,2011-08-01:2426069:Comment:1153452011-08-01T23:46:37.915ZPypermarru1http://lovevideoplayhouse.ning.com/profile/Pypermarru1
<p>Don't be ashamed. I have a couple family members I wouldn't exactly trust to do the right thing.</p>
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<p>Petty? Stealing jewerly that doesn't belong to you is NOT PETTY. You don't have to justify why she should't take it, it's yours through your mother PERIOD. If she came over and took all the food out of your fridge, would you say that's petty? Clothing? Linen's, etc? I wouldn't. If it doesn't belong to her she shouldn't be taking it without permission.</p>
<p>C is low,…</p>
<p>Don't be ashamed. I have a couple family members I wouldn't exactly trust to do the right thing.</p>
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<p>Petty? Stealing jewerly that doesn't belong to you is NOT PETTY. You don't have to justify why she should't take it, it's yours through your mother PERIOD. If she came over and took all the food out of your fridge, would you say that's petty? Clothing? Linen's, etc? I wouldn't. If it doesn't belong to her she shouldn't be taking it without permission.</p>
<p>C is low, really low. She took advantage of you and your mother in your time of vunlerability.</p>
<p>I seem to be rambling - Sorry.</p> Okay, I await Part 2.tag:lovevideoplayhouse.ning.com,2011-08-01:2426069:Comment:1150852011-08-01T22:19:31.383ZNatureJunkiehttp://lovevideoplayhouse.ning.com/profile/Robin
Okay, I await Part 2.
Okay, I await Part 2. NJ, I will blog about the nex…tag:lovevideoplayhouse.ning.com,2011-08-01:2426069:Comment:1151402011-08-01T07:33:11.447Zphoto2010http://lovevideoplayhouse.ning.com/profile/Kevin
NJ, I will blog about the next part in part 2, but no, I wouldn't ask my brother to do that for a variety of reasons which I'd rather not go into here. I will say that he did a lot for me during that time.
NJ, I will blog about the next part in part 2, but no, I wouldn't ask my brother to do that for a variety of reasons which I'd rather not go into here. I will say that he did a lot for me during that time. Kevin, when your brother told…tag:lovevideoplayhouse.ning.com,2011-08-01:2426069:Comment:1152582011-08-01T07:23:17.944ZNatureJunkiehttp://lovevideoplayhouse.ning.com/profile/Robin
Kevin, when your brother told C off about the stolen jewelry, what happened next? If he was willing to go to bat for you in that instance, is there any chance he would file a case in small claims court for you? (I know the jewelry is valuable, but the amount you can sue for in small claims court is sometimes suprisingly high, depending on the state you file in.)
Kevin, when your brother told C off about the stolen jewelry, what happened next? If he was willing to go to bat for you in that instance, is there any chance he would file a case in small claims court for you? (I know the jewelry is valuable, but the amount you can sue for in small claims court is sometimes suprisingly high, depending on the state you file in.)